XY Relational Coaching Credential for (Certified Coaches)
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All Successful Relationships Go Through these 7 Phases of ConneXion.
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A ConneXion is a Strong Emotional Bond
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Every Phase has its own Challenges that should be overcome before the next phase. All Phases are Connected.
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In 10 minutes, Testing Can Indicate Which Phase You’re In, and Whether
Needs Are Being Met
I.
THE METAPHASE:
OBJECTIVE: Pre-Program Discovery and Change
7 Tasks: XY Testing. Introspection. Observation. Discovery. Learning. Strategy. Change
Question: Can I Pause long enough to Regroup and Learn?
II.
THE CHALLENGE PHASE:
OBJECTIVE: Willingness to Experiment, Focusing on your own challenges
Dimensions: Covers all Dimensions
Question: Can I DIY and Self-Challenge to get all the relationship changes I need?
III.
THE BASIC CONNEXION (HONEYMOON) PHASE:
OBJECTIVE: Getting the Basics Right: Basic bonding
Dimensions: Communication and Intimacy
Question: Does the way I Communicate or Intimate Promote ConneXion or DisConneXion?
IV.
THE LEARNING PHASE (Or the Working Phase):
OBJECTIVE: Adapting, Resolving Conflict,
Problem Solving
Dimensions: Adaptability and Interactivity (conflict resolution)
Question: Who's doing the heavy lifting in the relationship? How do we interact to resolve conflict?
V.
THE BALANCE PHASE:
OBJECTIVE: Finding the right balance between vocation & family, self & partner, partner & children, family & friends
Dimensions: Connectivity and Social Relational ConneXion
Question: How close can I get to you without losing myself? How do I strike the right balance?
VI.
THE SELF-CONNEXION PHASE:
OBJECTIVE: Differentiation, Self-coaching
Dimensions: Self-care, Self-coaching, Problem Solving.
(OR SELF-PARTNERING)
Question: Can I DIY my relationship or do you do I need a coach, a community, or a strategic team? How much support do I need to succeed?
VII.
THE (SECURE) CONNEXION PHASE:
OBJECTIVE: Strong secure emotional bond
Dimensions: Maintenance, Relapse Prevention, Relationship Tune-up
Question: How do I maintain my strong connection? What is Type Infidelity and how do I avoid this trap?
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